power exchange

Ordeal Rituals in Power Exchange

[et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ _builder_version=”4.7.7″ _module_preset=”default”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”4.7.7″ _module_preset=”default”][et_pb_column _builder_version=”4.7.7″ _module_preset=”default” type=”4_4″][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.7.7″ _module_preset=”default” hover_enabled=”0″ sticky_enabled=”0″]   In our newest book, “[Hearts and Collars](www.heartsandcollars.com)”, we talk about the importance of ordeal rituals in our power exchange dynamic. We also discussed this during the Book Club of MAsT: San Diego last night. ********************************* For Read more…

By blue cat salad, ago

Self Publishing – Next Power Exchange Book – Turning our Polyam books into audiobooks

[et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ _builder_version=”4.7.7″ _module_preset=”default”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”4.7.7″ _module_preset=”default”][et_pb_column _builder_version=”4.7.7″ _module_preset=”default” type=”4_4″][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.7.7″ _module_preset=”default” hover_enabled=”0″ sticky_enabled=”0″] Self Publishing – Next Power Exchange Book – Turning our Polyam books into audiobooks   Eleven years ago when we had ‘Living M/s’ published…..self-publishing was complicated and not common. We had thought of self-publishing, but a publisher Read more…

By blue cat salad, ago

Permission Based Relationship

[et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ _builder_version=”4.7.7″ _module_preset=”default”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”4.7.7″ _module_preset=”default”][et_pb_column _builder_version=”4.7.7″ _module_preset=”default” type=”4_4″][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.7.7″ _module_preset=”default” hover_enabled=”0″ sticky_enabled=”0″] While we were interviewing someone for the podcast a the other night, they used a descriptor that I  hadn’t heard of before in the years we’ve been living power exchange: a permission based relationship.    Well, that Read more…

By blue cat salad, ago

How Survivors Can Thrive in a Power Exchange Relationship

[et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ _builder_version=”4.7.7″ _module_preset=”default”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”4.7.7″ _module_preset=”default”][et_pb_column _builder_version=”4.7.7″ _module_preset=”default” type=”4_4″][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.7.7″ _module_preset=”default” hover_enabled=”0″ sticky_enabled=”0″]   This is a class I (dawn) have been teaching for many, many years. After our first OLF (Ohio Leather Fest) at the beginning of our relationship, I knew this was something I wanted to teach. People Read more…

By blue cat salad, ago

‘My’ Master ….word choice

[et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ _builder_version=”4.7.7″ _module_preset=”default”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”4.7.7″ _module_preset=”default”][et_pb_column _builder_version=”4.7.7″ _module_preset=”default” type=”4_4″][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.7.7″ _module_preset=”default” hover_enabled=”0″ sticky_enabled=”0″] I came across someone’s post a few days ago that kept refering to ‘the Domme that I serve’ ….and it made me think/remember. When I talk about Dan, I usually say ‘my Master’ or ‘my Belum’ or Read more…

By blue cat salad, ago

EA601 – Self Bondage

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk with Katrina about self bondage! Why, how, and more! Plus they share what a therapist had to say about us! And listener feedback on our cunnilingus show. Plus fetishizing penis, worshiping penis, and cupping! -=-=-=-=-=- Find all things Dan & dawn Read more…

By sandbox_m8atgb, ago

EA599 – Kinks I Wish I Had

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk about kinks we don’t have…but wish we did.  Plus they talk about the ‘subbie presence’, and if Dan can really has ‘bottom radar’!? PLUS dawn rants about Men’s Health Magazine and the dangerous advice the give.  -=-=-=-=-=- Find all things Dan Read more…

By sandbox_m8atgb, ago

EA596 – Favorites of 2021 part 1

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn review our favorites of 2021! We talk about our favorite BDSM toy, favorite event we attended, favorite power exchange moment, and favorite porn! Plus, our favorite meals, physical activity, and drive in! And only one fetish – breath play! -=-=-=-=-=- Find all Read more…

By sandbox_m8atgb, ago